Most of us would like to simply avoid haters at all costs. In most cases, this is a good idea because you wouldn’t want them to interfere with your ability to manifest or have their bad vibes rubb off on you. However, there are times when you simply won’t be able to escape their wrath. In such cases, you should let their bad energy fuel your good energy. After all, energy is energy and whether we perceive it as bad or good, it’s still fuel. Therefore, instead of letting the fuel make us feel bad about ourselves, let it make us feel good.
Let Their Hate Inspire You
It may be tempting to ball up in a corner and feel super self-conscious when haters hate on you. However, sometimes it’s not a good thing to disregard their words. Listen to them, first. If their words are flat out untrue, ignore them. However, if they have a point, just let it make you better. Remember they are counting on you to always stay in the same place. So, when you show up bigger and better than they expected, this will throw them off. Let their hate inspire you and always keep them guessing.
Allow Their Noisiness Help You To Become More Low-Key
So, are they are dying to know how successful you are? Well, don’t let them or anyone else know for that matter. Just keep going. Remember revealing your success before you have allowed it to take root can cause people’s energy to start interfering with your manifestations.
Be Your Happiest Self No Matter What
An important part of self-care is to be happy. Even when haters are judging you or putting down your ideas or throwing shade in general, keep your mind on your goals and where you are headed. No need to bog yourself down in insecurities. Just stay focused. Don’t let them penetrate your emotions.
Is The Criticism Justified?
Haters are going to always be haters but do they have a point? Is there something about what they said that you should take to heart and change about yourself? This gesture isn’t to give in to their hating. Rather it is quite the opposite. It will actually make them hate even more. Imagine if someone said, “She dresses nice but her clothes aren’t from high-end stores.” Well, shock them. Throw on some red bottoms occasionally and some 7 for All Mankind Jeans a nice Chloe purse, and a Chanel jacket from time to time just to tick them off.
How do you feel about using haters to your advantage? Share your viewpoint in the comments section.
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Disclaimer: This blog article is the opinion of the author. It is not meant to take the place of professional advice.